Why Learn to Communicate or End a Relationship One couple recently came into a hypnotist’s office with a serious relationship problem. The husband proved to be a real loudmouth shouting at his wife as well as the hypnotist. When his shy and gentle wife asked him if we could discuss this matter quietly. He did not hear her request. And she was not hearing or comprehending his message.
The hypnotist asked the husband to speak more softly. The shouting continued. Finally, the hypnotist shouted in an equally loud voice. “Now just shut up for a while or get out!” There was the possibility, of course, that the client would become angry, get up and walk out–a calculated risk. However the husband looked around sharply and asked, “Was I speaking too loudly?” He had no idea how he sounded. His nature was to speak loudly. To avoid confrontation, his wife did not reply and he assumed she was not hearing him.
Relationship – Communication Success
The two were hypnotized sitting side by side. During the hypnosis session they reviewed the early days of their marriage, felt the caring sensations and love that existed at the beginning. Ultimately they learned to modify their modes of listening and communication. In essence, they Learned to Communicate. Hypnosis can bring understanding of relationship communications. It can heighten awareness of possibilities to modify attitudes, suggestibility’s and sexuality’s. Lastly it highlights the importance and need for creating feelings of confidence and security regarding the relationship itself. Learn to Communicate!